Who do I meet with, how do we connect?
First, pray. Seek the Lord’s leading on who He would pair you with on this discipleship journey. Think about people in your Redemption Group, people you have already shared some of life’s challenges and blessings with. Consider others in our body who are in a similar stage of life (young married, kids, retired, etc). Then do the sometimes challenging step of asking and inviting others into a study with you. Do this by asking the couple or individuals to pray about this decision, allowing them a week or two to get back with you not putting them on the spot to make a decision at the time of invitation. Follow up with them and ask if they have been able to discern what God would have for them. If you have trouble connecting, ask your Redemption Group leader or one of the pastors for help in getting connected.
When you find another couple or individual to meet with, agree to some practical considerations:
Define the TIME: Suggest meeting for a defined period of time together (6/9 months). Thereafter, assess the value, availability, and other relationships that God may be leading you to invest in.
Define the INTENT: Agree on the expectations of your time together. Share the intentionality that you desire for your time together. Consider the overarching GOAL of a LTG; to continue to be transformed into the person and way of Jesus.
Define consistent MEETING: Suggest meeting at least two/three times a month. When? Where? How long will you meet each time?